We got married 7 years ago. I have wanted kids for many yeras and was always told by my wife, " next year, oh, next year ". She wanted to wait until we are financially stable before we have kids. Wellll, 7 years later and she will be 40 and now she wants kids. She can't wait so she wants invetro?. Her way or the highway, I don't think so. This is a marriage, a 2 way street and I want to have kids the natural way. The thing is, she is LAZY. She is Italian, doesn't cook, rarely cleans, demands things immediately - and if she doesn't get it, get ready to pay for it later - and now she wants kids via injection! Can someone help me with this one because I am stumped. Should I divorce her so I can find a romantic woman who wants kids? I have put in 7 hard years of work into this, and it is not working. She will not change her ways.