Well, since I was born... He hasn't been there. My life was much harder without a dad there to fend away evil boys and things of that manner. My mother had to be my mom and my dad and SHE did a pretty good job at it. My complaint... I recently got engaged to the best man ever and when it came time to tell my sperm donor... he went balistic! He told me I didn't know what I was doing and told me that I haven't experienced enough life to get married and went on to try telling ME relationship advice. This coming from the man whose been married twice and dissed both wives... who has 3 kids and cares more about himself than all of them combined! From a man who lives with a woman and her 4 children and 1 grandchild and SHE is supporting HIM! How could he say those things to me. If you see him don't buy it! He's a liar, a cheater, and worst of all... A terrible father!