The site rudefinder.com is a dating site that is running a scam. I joined and all of the responses I got from women were basically the same. The also have a lot of back end products for sale. Mostly ebooks, it's all junk. The girls activities are script driven, and random. They are not real. Most of the women when the message me ask "how my week is going?" That can't be legit, as not all who contact me will ask the same question one after another. I have put together a DDoS blog made specifically to attack rudefinder.com Goto - http://killrudefinderdotcom.blogspot.com

Rudefinder.com appears to be a scam website, according to the following links:

1/ http://rudefinders.wordpress.com/2011/03/30/rudefinder-com-scam/
2/ http://whoscammedyou.com/scams/2810/Rudefinder.com
3/ http://bewareoffalseadvertising.blogspot.com/

Many believe it's part of a much larger network of sister sites which try and get you to subscribe for a "free trial" but then charge you for a year's subscription. Once the cash has been charged to your credit card, it will be impossible to get it refunded.
It is also suspected that the members' pictures shown on the website are of models, but the people writing the messages for those members work for Rudefinder.com and don't exist in the locations they claim.