Just saw Savvy’s comment and thought this sounds familiar. The man who contacted me has even got his own website: www.globalgemsltd.co.uk which seems to be a fake. We’ve been in contact since February. Same background story widowed, kid … and, wow he got his contract for mining in … NIGERIA. He desperately wanted to know my mailing address and phone number; gave him the address of a neighbor’s and my non-registered cell-phone number. He’s sending roses and calling, not asking for money yet, but everything sounds rather bizarre. This guy is not on Elite Meeting but on spark.com. But I had as bad experiences with the other dating site.