I just joined this sight and immediately got about 8 scammer emails trying to get me to contact them off the site. I complained to the company and wanted to cancel my membership but they said no that they are trying to stop them but several contacted me before I joined and a couple sounded sincere so I joined. In my opinion this company wants these scammers on their website to increase their memberships which they won't refund. I'am an actual widow so have a huge target on my head . Shameful!!!