I discovered this site two months ago. Liked what i saw decided too give a try and joined without as standard member. I didn't upgrade till a month ago. During the time I was nonmember I was receiving winks and emails. I feel that was a scam in just to get my money. Now that I upgraded too a member no winks or emails tried and tried even to the to the ones that winked and email no respond. I rewrote my profile thinking that would help, not. This site is a ripped off. read full review »