Once you sign up you make a profile Women can send and recieve messages for free. Men must pay in order to reply to a message even if ur a paid member. Once the Men pay Women can contact you reguardless but it shows up on their screen as a preumin member and they can chat with you otherwise, if u dont pay you wont be able to be searched and or be contacted. However, I advise men to stay away from this site. they also use a software to create accounts and profiles that mimick ones response. read full review »