This 'thing' is not human. He is a predator who will leave you blinded, broke and bleeding. He acts like this 'nice' guy but he is NOT. Behind the blue eyes is nothing. It is entirely blank. He must have been sleeping with at least 5 girls (and possibly men) during the relationship I had with him. The minute you do not do what he wants, he shuts you down or shuts you up. He becomes abusive and controlling, blaming and condescending. It's always everyone else, never him. He also has an obsession with fire and flame... read full review »