I was smart and got off the site. The only way that I could get them to stop charging my monthly fee was to close that bank account. They changed my profile secriotion, cropped my photos, sent me flirts from people that had flirted with me and just about all the other complibnts written on here. Stop wasting your time and just go to POF.com. It's better than all the other dating sites combined..and FREE! I"ve gone out on over 3 dozen dates from that site in 9 months, had 3 steady relationships and had sex with 40% of my dates. 30% of them on the first date. Hey this isn't friggin' Iran you know! read full review »